When a person is willing to invest his/her time and ready to share his/her life with that person that is not just what true love really is !!
a leap of faith can move mountains!
True Love – It comes when they don’t judge you. They may not like something that you do, but they are patient with you. They trust you. They trust in the better side of you and believe in who you are. When they are upset with you, they talk to you about it in a calm way. Not shaming. They care more about the relationship than they do about being right.
Love is sacrifice. It is sometimes that feeling right away, but not always. Feelings come and go. Real love stays.
When you love someone it’s not so difficult to accept their flaws. It just comes naturally.
It depends on how long you’ve known each other. If you mean how do you know someone is genuinely interested in you before starting a possible relationship? Then the person will give you positive vibes. They will show genuine interest in you.
Early stage romantic interest can NEVER be love. Love evolves over a period of time. Liking someone very much is par for the course. If you’re in a relationship that has been ongoing for quite a while, then your partner will be consistent. They will be genuine, kind, have a sense of humour, clearly enjoy being with you, caring, communicate effectively, not be a doormat and so much more. Going back to what I myself term ‘exploratory romance’ then you must be able to differentiate between physical attraction and genuine affection which is heartfelt.
So many people make this massive mistake early on in a relationship. Don’t confuse sexual desires and true feelings. The truly best way to ascertain whether someone is truly interested in you is to be patient.
You really should learn as you go along and make the inevitable mistakes that we all do.
Genuine men will be patient. Their decency will shine through just like the brilliant sun on a lovely clear skied summers day!
A friend of mine once asked me,
“How can you tell if a person genuinely loves you?”
I replied,
“Time. You know that a person loves you by how much time they give you.
When a person decides to sit and see you cry for hours rather than being somewhere else.
And that has been one of my major standards for love ever since. Hope you all will benefit from this!
