Momina Mustehsan has come forward demanding an apology from Ali Zafar if he has consciously or unconsciously made her female colleagues felt uncomfortable in her tweet. People were quick to question Shafi’s character but they somewhere forgot how even an influential female can feel harassed.
#MeToo needs a response #ImSorry from the offenders. Nothing will change until they acknowledge, take responsibility and make amends. pic.twitter.com/sphI1c1agT
— Momina Mustehsan (@MominaMustehsan) April 20, 2018
After Meesha Shafi even she was securitize by our own people. She gave away a well written statement regardless of any biases but she was been targeted for being an influential female. Is this what we want for our future generations to feel?
The fear of being judged is keeping all the females to speak up!
What a thought Momina? So you think you use men at your own will, later on called it harrasment. I believe that an educated woman like meesha can easily raise her voice at the first instance. There was no need to wait for years and then call it #metoo
— Mohsin Raza Bhutta (@MohsinRazaBhut4) April 20, 2018
Rather than questioning the females why don’t we start questioning our dominant gender?
I also have a question for @MominaMustehsan and other ladies..why u all gave space to mens so that they come closer to u at this lvl… the things r changed..now girls take the word “freedom” wrongly and use it in their way.
— Waleed Malik (@Muhammad152535) April 20, 2018
Distancing yourself won’t bring a difference it is accepting the dominance and giving them more space to grow!
Ok lets say Ali Zafar is guilty but if you are not comfortable with someone why can’t you just distance yourself. Has he forced her to take pictures with him so close or arms wraped her waist?
— Hasnain (@hasnain_1472) April 20, 2018
Her dating life doesn’t depict who she is.
irony she herself was dating his brother danial zafar ????????
— Khurram Abbasi (@KhurramAbbasi2) April 20, 2018
That won’t bring any justice to your sister or daughter, will it?
i think all males should start a #fuck you campaign in response to all those woman who for 15 min of fame shame an international icon knowing full well that they in their lifetime would never achieve that status the only person that will loose in this shit is @AliZafarsays.
— Shiraz Ali Khan (@DrShiraz1987) April 20, 2018
For you this must be “shit” but for majority of scared or oppressed women this is the reality of their lives:
This is os disturbing & absurd at the same time from the ladies who even don’t know the matter of them even Talking about shit
— Sohail Ahmed (@SohailKeyani_) April 20, 2018
Islam has given the most liberty and right for women if we read more:
My Question: Y women violate so Easily? One can’t clap with one hand. If a man is doing wrong then it also means something is encouraging him. If by saying makes you better then #ImSorry but bad things happen if we leave the circle of Islamic laws. .
— YaSiR KhAn (@myasir_pk) April 20, 2018
The point is not about evidences but it’s about the courage to speak up about such issues:
Did you have proof of who is right and who is wrong before tweeting???
How can you judge someone without solid evidence??— Haadi Hammad Syed (@HaadiHammadSye1) April 20, 2018
How about men start to accept that they are emotionally insensitive towards such issues? Things will be a lot more easier”:
U should go to some good psychologist and have ur check up
— khan ???????????????? (@cricketer1000) April 20, 2018
Even if , for instance Meesha is wrong we can’t ignore the fact that such things happen to most of our female counterparts be it our mothers, sisters or even acquaintances. Why can’t we stand up for their rights for once so the future generations have this sense of responsibility? We should be evaluating ourselves rather than questioning others including females.