There are these standards that society has put on people, Standards jis se society humein judge karti hai, kai if we are desi or too cool for this society. Hum dosron ki soch ke mutabiq apni zandagi guzar rahe hain, tou kiya hum apni zindagi jee rahe hain ya unki?
Makeup karna zaroori hai warna log bole gay kuyn kiya howa? Beemar ho? Breakup hogaya? Society he na sikhaya hai kai what you are isn’t enough tou phir kuyn hum ‘Perfectionist’ bannay ki koshish mein lage howe hai?
Society is funny. They ask you to be yourself aur phir khud he judge karte hai. Phele khud bolte hai kai just be yourself aur jub unki advice lekar you start living your life wohi log pehli fursat mein aapko judge karte hai when you do something against so called ‘society norms’. I am sorry but ye he sach hai.
Kiya fiada itna parhne likhnay ka jub aap apni mentality he nae change karsakte. Kuyn hum abhi bhi lagey howai hai ek doosre kai toh mein? When will we actully stop judging people on the basis of what they are wearing?
Let’s try to move past log kya kaheinge, overcome the fear of ab kya hoga and think selfishly about the mental and physical well-being of our own selves and the ones we love.
Perhaps, one day, we will be able to see beyond stereotypes and what society says, and use our own logic to distinguish between right and wrong.
