Ajeeb Ittefaq hai that even in these days of the 21st century; we are still drowned in the dark depth of these evils. One of the worst evils of our society is the Jahaiz system.
The word ‘Jahaiz’ means the property and money that a bride brings to her husband’s house at the time of her marriage. In simple words ‘Apne susral mein izzat rakhne ka zariya.’
Why every time a price tag is mentioned from our so called ‘Susraal.’ 2 lakh 50 thousands, sorry will have to pass, 5 lakh 30 thousand? 10 Lakh? Bhai Sahab akhir aap chahte kia ho?
Now most of you who are not married would say kai nae mere susraal wale ache hai and they would never ask for it or woh log jo shaadi shuda hai would say kai mere mama aur baba ne with so called ‘Out Of Love’ dia hai. SAHI!
Ghalti na aapki hai na humari ghalti iss society ki hai jisne ye mindset set karliya hai. Kiya jahaiz kai bases phir shaadiyan honi chiye hai? A girl leaves her parents place to marry a man who she think would save her from the susraal controversy and of course from our over smart society. But aisa tou sirf movies mein hota hai!
Akhir jitna bhi karlo in the end larke ko apne family ko he support karna parta hai. I get it that a man has a family too that he has to take care of but baat tou wohi howi, jahaiz laane se tou woh bhi mana nae karta.
Kuyn ek aurat apne susraal kai liye bojh hai? Kiya jahaiz itna zaroori hai? Masla humari society mein hai jo ek price tag laga kar dou professions ko mix kar rahe hain. Akhir kab tak?