It’s a general human trait that we don’t like being judged and called on for our flaws and drawbacks, well obviously we don’t everyone needs positivity in life and the motivation to do better. No one likes to be around negative and sarcastic people.
Using sarcasm excessively can make a person seem disingenuous, passive aggressive, and callous. Often times it is used when a person feels angry, distrustful, or frustrated, but cannot find the courage to speak directly about it. In order to escape being that person everyone tries to avoid a conversation with there are some main points to keep in mind.
Firstly think before you speak or as it’s said think before you ink, words matter a lot. Having said that tone is voice is equally important, at times it’s not what you say it’s actually how you say it that might sound offensive and upsetting to the other person. Most importantly never ever target a person’s looks, voice or appearance because that’s not sarcasm but purely mean.
Where sarcasm can be fun, but more often it’s mean-spirited and hurtful. So a piece of advice next time you get into a conversation think carefully of the words you utter and the tone you use.
