We all can agree that relationships are tricky business however, once we figure out how to prioritise them, it can be one of the most beautiful feelings ever. Regardless of the fact if you believe in the fact that there is one person out there amongst the 7.7 billion people in this world, meant for you, how can you know they are “The One”?
Here is my take on it! Get ready, fasten your seatbelts and come join me on this ride.
You are comfortable and can be yourself around them
When your partner can embrace themselves when around you and fully let’s you be who you are, they are certainly the one for you! Laughing like kids, play fighting, being silly and not caring what they think or worrying about them judging you, is a big sign!
You feel at ease when you see them
There is a certain sense of calmness and belonging when they are by you, even if you both are angry at each other, their presence can change everything!
They are supportive
There might be times your partner may not agree with many ideas or things you do, however, they still act like your biggest cheerleader and that is so important for your personal and growth as a couple.
Respect and honesty play a major role
I mean, if your partner is actually transparent with you, it means they feel that connection with you. If not, then bad news darling, they’re just wasting your time.
Always mention a future with you
If a man or woman acts like they want to spend the rest of their life with you, it means they picture you as a permanent part of their lives. However, saying it is easier than doing it. Don’t fall for words, make sure their actions match it too.
Attraction of the souls
The compatibility you both have is beyond physical or financial reasons. It’s more to do with emotions and unconditional love. All they want to do is take care of you and that means something.
Both of you must be able to connect not just on a physical level but on a deeper level.
You should understand each other and be free to talk about things with each other. You should always feel happy and safe when you are with him and not have a reason to doubt his words. Furthermore, he should be a man who shows that he would stand by you regardless of what happens and not go running for the hills, the moment a problem occurs.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment, just make sure you are choosing someone who can be your bestfriend, lover and partner all at once.
Until next time.
