Everyone around you seems to be interested in your marriage plans. Aren’t you tired of being questioned about marriage every single time? You must be, i can tell. But we can’t really help it, can we?
According to the society we live in, a girl MUST get married or at least be engaged by 25. It’s like they have set an age limit and you dare not abide by that.
As they say that, “age is just a number” and you might not be willing to get married by 25 or some number close to 25, and trust me, it’s OKAY! There is so much more to life than just getting married. You have invested a lifetime in getting yourself educated. Do not let those degrees go to waste, at all. You need to have a career and you need to be financially independent before you take the plunge.
You might be ready to get married when you reach your 20’s, but wait, think again! It’s not really necessary for you to be that person. So don’t force yourself, only because ‘this is what your mom and dad wants’. You need to take some time to figure things out, after all, it’s your life and you only live once, right?
Enjoy your freedom. Chase your dreams. And do whatever the hell you want!
Marriage can wait. There’s no hurry! With marriage, comes a lot of responsibilities and you need to be ready to handle all those responsibilities. Take the plunge only when you think you are ready. Don’t get married because the society keeps reminding you that you are getting old and its ‘time to settle down’. There is no right age for marriage!
The truth is, we can not live our lives according to our khala, phuppo or chachi, for that matter. Next time when any of your relative or a married friend remind you of your age and drop hints to get married, let them know that you obviously know your age and that its non of their business.
HAPPY SINGLE LIFE LADIES, MAKE THE MOST OF IT! AND DO NOT LET ANYONE TELL YOU HOW TO LIVE YOUR LIFE.
