Dear me,

I want to tell you so many things, but I’m not sure where to begin. Life can be equally beautiful and challenging. But you can overcome everything because you are resilient. I wish you had given me some questions to respond to today that you had noted down. Since I am you and not you at the same time, it is challenging to imagine what you would have wanted me to talk in particular. My final option is guessing. I’m not sure if you’ve ever wanted advice from a wiser version of yourself before making choices. Hence, even though you did not wish for them, the following words of wisdom:

For the person I was 15 years ago, learning is wonderful but math is difficult. Do not think that in order to fit in with the group, you must replicate what everyone else does. Keep being easygoing and polite; you are complete on your own. Despite the fact that some people stop playing with dolls because they feel it is “lame,” keep doing it. You’re off to a fantastic start.

I would tell the person I was ten years ago not to worry about boys and to continue focusing on developing sincere friendships with friends. It’s okay that you developed a guarded personality; sometimes it’s best to just watch and listen. You will read more books than you ever will because books are amazing. Don’t worry about the bullies; you’ll one day prove them wrong. Do not have even the slightest doubt in your abilities. You are on a clear path.

To the one I was five years ago, failing an assignment was not the end of the world. Family and friends will be there to support you in standing up. It will be exciting to take small steps towards independence, but make mental notes. Please take a moment to try and process everything. Regarding what you’d like to accomplish in the future, you are on the right track.

To the person I was yesterday, keep hearing yourself. Every now and then, review your notes in your head. In the last three months, you’ve felt older than you have in the previous three years. Keep in mind not to analyze yourself against others. Maintain the old, helpful habits you had previously abandoned. Your priorities are in order. Even though the journey is still long, it is worthwhile.

You look quite different today, both inside and out. You probably did not anticipate things to work out this way; you would be surprised but also proud. I am aware that I owe you a lot of the wishes and commitments that you made to yourself along the way. I am aware that I still need to take you to various destinations. I assure you that I will keep going while never losing sight of you. To you, past, present, and future, I say “cheers.”

Sincerely,

Yours truly