If a person is hurting us again and again and not realising what they are doing is actually hurting the feelings then it’s better to walk away and not waste the time and efforts in making them realise. Because a person is mature enough to understand if someone’s hurt by their actions or words, but they dont want to accept the fact that they are hurting the other person because their ego is not letting them accept it.
People are really selfish now a days they only like to be with people who are beneficial for them..
Someone who has been hurt badly may become silent, which is the most dangerous thing.
If a person is angry, there is still hope…
If there is explanations, tears, and concern there is care. If a person goes silent the efforts become nonexistent.
People don’t even realise how they are hurting the other person or even if they realise they don’t accept their mistake just because they just can not accept how badly they are hurting someone and attempting to force realization upon someone is likely to be ineffective.
“Why are you making big deal out of everything”
“You were the one who’s closed off”
“You should apologise for not talking and sharing”
“How would i know if you wont tell me”
“I didn’t mean it”
These are some statements which people give when they just can not accept their mistake and rather than accepting it they start blaming the other person and play the victim card!
Even if they know they have hurt the other persons feelings they try not to be the bad person but try to make the other person bad.
When you trust a person with all your secrets and after a misunderstanding or inconvenience they start using against you just to clear and cover up their personality. The most disgusting thing a person can do is use your secrets against you but there are people who don’t even realise how are they hurting someones feeling by not even realising.
You can not control what other person will do or should do, they will do whatever they want to do so It’s important to prioritize your own emotional needs and make choices that are healthy for you, It’s better to walk away then hurt your own feelings by trying to make the other person realise how they did wrong..
